Create an optimistic and harmonious campus culture and establish healthy interpersonal relationships
(Source: "China w88 casino News" Date:2014Year3month24日）
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Editor’s note: How can the warmth of roommates like “the brother who sleeps on my upper bunk” spread across campus? In the season when winter jasmine flowers bloom freely, many colleges and universities pay more attention to the "dormitory festival" activities, because in recent years, news about college students' "fighting in the same room" has frequently appeared in the newspapers. From "close as a family" to "thank you for not killing", people can't help but question the close relationship between college classmates in their memories: Is it because the media overemphasizes the word "college student" in extreme vicious events, or is it that the Internet age, restless age, and utilitarian reality have changed too many things? Is the relationship between classmates in the ivory tower okay? Is it "sick"? What is the mainstream, where are the hidden worries, and how to change it? These are our invitations for this issue5A topic discussed by the Minister of Academic Affairs and Engineering of a university.
Moderator:
■Our reporter Li Weiwei
KA Guin:
■Wang Yunhai, Director of the Academic and Engineering Department of the w88 casino
■Feng Xiaoning, Director of the Academic and Engineering Department of South China University of Technology
■An Juntang, Minister of Academic Affairs and Engineering of Lanzhou University
■Li Hongge, Director of the Academic and Engineering Department of Hunan University of Science and Technology
■Chen Yiwen, Director of the Academic and Engineering Department of Wuhan Yangtze Technology and Business University
Flaws cannot be concealed, extreme and vicious incidents are just isolated cases
Moderator: Although reason tells us that extremely vicious incidents such as roommate poisoning are only isolated cases, it is undeniable that there are crux and hidden worries in the current relationship between classmates. What is your overall evaluation of the current relationship with classmates in college?
Wang Yunhai:The relationship between college classmates should be said to be relatively simple among all social relationships. However, with the rapid development of society and the increasing pressure of competition, as well as the influence of multiculturalism and multiple values, the interpersonal relationships of college students have gradually developed from relatively simple in the past to more complex, resulting in undesirable phenomena such as difficulty in getting along harmoniously with classmates in the same dormitory and vicious competition among classmates.
Feng Xiaoning: Individual cases are flaws, but the flaws cannot cover up the flaws.90The vast majority of post-college students are positive, optimistic, affectionate and righteous, and have the courage to take on responsibilities. However, there have been major changes compared to the past in terms of communication with classmates and ways of maintaining friendships with classmates. The use of various new media, especially dating media, has diversified the ways in which college classmates in the new era can contact each other.
An Juntang: Extremely vicious incidents are rare cases. At work, I have had in-depth exchanges with many students. Overall, the college student community is still positive, optimistic, and full of positive energy. The relationship between classmates is also very harmonious, and there are many touching stories of mutual help. However, society, especially some media, pay less attention to these ordinary people's good deeds. Of course, individual extreme events have allowed us to see the character flaws of some college students and some problems in college w88 casino. However, we should also see that the higher w88 casino sector is actively studying the ideological characteristics and development trends of college students, and taking the initiative to strengthen w88 casino and guidance.
I am the only one who is the main reason for problems
Moderator: What are the main problems that currently exist in the relationship between college classmates? What is the specific performance? What do you think is causing this?
Wang Yunhai:The existing problems mainly include the following aspects: First, fear of group life, making it difficult to live in harmony with classmates. The main reason is that too much attention is paid to achievements and the cultivation of good personality and behavior is neglected. The sense of competition exceeds the sense of cooperation. Second, individualism is prominent and collective consciousness is weak. It is mainly caused by the excessive pursuit of individuality and strong self-awareness brought about by the only-child family w88 casino. Third, utilitarian thinking dominates, and comparison behavior is prominent. Mainly due to the influence of bad trends in society. The fourth is barriers to social life. People are keen on the Internet but are at a loss in normal social interactions.
The reasons for these problems are complex and diverse: First, social factors. Incorrect values such as utilitarianism, hedonism, and money supremacy impact the incomplete value system of college students, causing some college students' collectivism to weaken and individualism to rise. The second is family growth environment. Some students have developed a strong sense of superiority and possessiveness since childhood, and always consider themselves first when encountering problems, which inevitably leads to conflicts with others. The third is psychological quality. College students are still in the formative stage of personality development, their self-cognition ability is imperfect, and they are prone to conflicts with others in life.
Li Hongge: I think the most critical thing is that schools, families, and society have not formed a synergy in w88 casino in this area. Problems in college classmate relationships are manifested in conflicts, indifference, lack of care and trust, rejection of group activities, resistance to cooperation, and even fights, etc. Among them, personality incompatibility is the main reason. In addition, lack of communication and communication, disparity in family conditions, lack of family w88 casino, different living habits, hobbies, and opinions, etc., all affect the development of good relationships. There is another very important reason. Many students are addicted to online games, watching Korean dramas and making friends online, etc., but ignore the actual interactions between people in reality.
Chen Yiwen: College students are under tremendous pressure from studies and employment. This pressure can easily cause psychological problems such as anxiety and jealousy among students with poor ability to withstand stress. Most of them are only children who have grown up under the care and tolerance of their parents. Some people have distinctive personalities and are self-centered, and do not know tolerance and understanding. It is inevitable that problems will arise in interactions with classmates.
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Moderator: As far as schools are concerned, what efforts can be made to cultivate harmonious relationships between classmates? What work has your w88 casino carried out in this regard?
Wang Yunhai:The w88 casino strives to create a positive, optimistic, harmonious and civilized campus culture to help students establish harmonious, healthy, mutually supportive and loving interpersonal relationships. First, the preschool support program lays a solid foundation. Created before new students enrollQQ(network tool) group, counselors and class teachers intervene in advance. The second is to use the freshman w88 casino platform to strengthen guidance. Focus on adding content such as interpersonal adaptation and integration to freshman orientation w88 casino platforms such as the first lesson of the university. Third, campus culture stimulates positive energy. Through activities such as outstanding classes and character selection, we advocate and establish healthy and upward interpersonal relationships. Fourth, civilized conventions guide behavioral norms. Carry out a civilized convention action for college students through online media to remind students to pay attention to regulating their own behavior.
Feng Xiaoning: Schools should advocate harmonious relationships between classmates and pay more attention to building and consolidating the friendship between classmates through the construction of academic style, selection of outstanding teams and individuals, and carrying out cultural and sports activities. South China University of Technology has created a student work system of "Two Projects and One Plan" - the first is the "Benchmark Project" to strive for excellence. With the theme of "Seven Colors of the Rainbow, the Power of Examples", this project carries out selection activities such as "Top Ten Advanced Class Groups" and "Top Ten People Who Moved Huayuan" to help students increase their knowledge, expand their abilities and improve their quality. The second is the "excellence project" of academic style construction. This is an important measure for the construction of w88 casino's academic style, such as advocating students to "do one practical thing, do a review, and do introspection" every day. Next is the "Hundred-Step Ladder Climbing Plan". This is a w88 casino-wide, comprehensive extracurricular academic science and technology innovation activity for students.
An Juntang: Strengthening w88 casino and management in schools is an important way to build a harmonious relationship between classmates. Lanzhou University has always attached great importance to the construction of students' ideological and political w88 casino teams such as counselors and class teachers, and has created and implemented the "deputy class teacher system" to select outstanding junior students as deputy class teachers for freshmen and carry out peer tutoring. At the same time, we actively promote the establishment of mechanisms such as the dormitory chief system, the party member dormitory listing system, regular visits of students and workers to student dormitories, and the construction of a safe campus, and persist in carrying out activities such as the "Warm Dormitory Design Competition" and the "Civilized Dormitory Appraisal".
Li Hongge: Colleges and universities can cultivate harmonious relationships between students by cultivating students' healthy personality, developing teamwork, and creating a harmonious environment. Hunan University of Science and Technology has a good tradition in this regard, which can be summarized as cultivating the "spirit of great love" through "harmonious collectives". Through the construction of civilized dormitories and classes, the creation of "Love Mutual Help Bar", "Love Foundation", "Learning Assistance Group", etc., we build an ecological campus, continuously strengthen the awareness of "w88 casino for all", promote the "Five Poverty Relief" project, help college students solve problems in study, economy, employment and other aspects, and provide a good environment for the cultivation of harmonious relationships among college students.
Chen Yiwen: Wuhan Yangtze Technology and Business College not only offers elective courses such as "College Student Interpersonal Relationship Management" for students, but also conducts professional psychological assessments for all freshmen every year, and passes the cartel16personality tests and9024406_24509
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