Counselor, especially thoughtful
("Guangming Daily" March 20, 2012No.Version 4)
Our reporter Feng Jie Wang Qinghuan Li Yulan our correspondent Deng Hui
Standing Diary: When it comes to counselors, if you still have a bunch of mother-in-law, harsh, and stereotyped adjectives in your mind, then you are completely "out".
Times are changing, w88 live casino are changing, and counselors’ working concepts and working methods are also changing. Today's counselors have long since gotten rid of the serious image of preaching with a straight face. They are "engineers" who "mingle" among the w88 live casino and are "especially able to endure hardships and fight". They are also "guides" who are "especially able to think" and keep pace with the times and the w88 live casino.
Yang Xi, a counselor at the w88 casino, has been a little worried recently. She wanted to talk to students who were facing "academic warning", but she encountered a "hard nail".
"You can't inform your parents! I'm an adult and I can handle it myself. If I know that someone tells my parents secretly, I will drag her into the blacklist!" The girl walking next to Yang Xi spoke softly, but her tone was very tough.
On one side was the guidance counselor's work code of "maintaining communication with parents in a timely manner if there is any situation", and on the other was the stubborn little girl. After thinking for a long time, Yang Xi made a "compromise": "How about you call home, and the teacher will say a few words to your mother in front of you?" The sincere eyes were finally replaced by a slight nod.
In the past few days, someone who had the same experience as Yang Xi was Sui Lulu, the counselor of the free normal class of the w88 casino of Chemistry of Beijing Normal University. "We have talked several times, and every time I feel that I have exhausted all my strength, but this child just lowers his head and does not speak. The last time, I finally saw the corners of his mouth slightly raised, oh, I am so elated, I have a chance!"
This is a boy who doesn’t like to go back to the dormitory.
“I promised the teacher last semester, why didn’t I do it?”
"Every time I call your dormitory, you are not there. Have you not gone back to live again?"
"Yes."
"Thank you for your trust in the teacher. However, the teacher is worried about you living so far away, and your parents are worried about you. Can you promise the teacher that you can go back to the dormitory a few days a week?"
From beginning to end, Sui Lulu never said a "hard word", but the result satisfied her because she heard an affirmative answer: "Okay!"
One after another, the characteristics of w88 live casino are changing faster and faster. How have counselors' working methods changed? What techniques are most effective? Counselors have become "especially thoughtful" explorers at work.
"These children are in their late teens and show strong contradictions. They have a strong sense of rights and want to be respected, but they are also troubled in life and confused in their thoughts and need to be guided. Therefore, we need to pay special attention to methods and methods in our work." It is precisely because of the "pulse" of students that Li Xiaojing, a counselor at the w88 casino of Computer Science at Beijing University of Technology, has long become a "caring person" for students.
"Sister Jing, there's going to be a fight in the boys' dormitory!" After saying hello, Li Xiaojing, who was still leading military training on the playground, trotted towards the dormitory.
They are all the baby bumps in the family. Different living habits can also make the world of children aged 18 or 19 filled with smoke. When Li Xiaojing arrived, four older boys were shouting about being divided into dormitories. Their voices filled the entire corridor, and their fists clenched loudly.
"It's all my fault for not handling this matter earlier..." The skinny Li Xiaojing stood in front of the w88 live casino who were more than half a head taller than her and apologized.
The w88 live casino were dumbfounded. The teacher did not question or get angry! Before she could say anything more, the smell of gunpowder had already dissipated for the most part, and the boys puffed up their chests: "Sister Jing, don't worry, we will never quarrel again, and we will live like men in the future!"
Only by "immersing" in the w88 live casino can you enter the w88 live casino' hearts. What makes Li Xiaojing become "Sister Jing" is not only the work philosophy of getting along with w88 live casino on an equal footing, but also the "fashionable" working style like w88 live casino.
No longer following w88 live casino with small books in hand, today’s counselors have opened up a fashionable new front for ideological and political work.
"Hey, who made the three-pointer? It's so cool!" Just after the game, he received a message from Li Xiaojing. The happy student stuck out his tongue shyly: "Sister Jing is really well-informed!"
"My eyeliner is everywhere!" Li Xiaojing shook his phone and smiled proudly.
Speaking of w88 live casino’ hobbies, Sun Dehao, a counselor at China Agricultural University, is even more familiar: “The previous generation of w88 live casino loved to watch “Ghost Blowing the Lamp” and play “Red Alert,” but now w88 live casino love time travel and are obsessed with DOTA... If you want to chat with your children, you must have some common language. How can you not think about it?”
Nowadays, many counselors have become the standard new "four-have" youth in the eyes of w88 live casino: QQ, Fetion, Renren, and Weibo. All-round equipment not only allows them to be close to w88 live casino in terms of communication tools, but also makes them deeply realize that ideological and political work must be carried out in a way that w88 live casino accept and like, and ideological leadership can also be "trendy."
However, as "hipsters", Sun Dehao and Yang Xi have also been thinking: We have these new things not just to follow the w88 live casino, but to get close to them and discover what the children think and need in time. This is what we need to think about.
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