w88 casino News Network (Reporter Zhi Jingya)11month27At 6:30 that evening, w88 casino2008YearThe fifth and closing ceremony of the International High-end Forum began grandly in the lecture hall on the third floor of Ningyuan. This lecture invited Jin Zhengkun, the keynote speaker of Baijia Forum. As a senior and authoritative expert on international business etiquette, an etiquette consultant to the Protocol Department of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and a professor at Renmin University of China, he discussed issues that need attention in "Diplomacy and Foreign Affairs Etiquette" with students from the University of International w88 and Economics.Xu Song, Secretary of the Youth League Committee、Dean of the w88 casino of Humanities and Social SciencesDai Changzheng attended the closing ceremony.
“The world is diverse”
Jin Zhengkun first pointed out three basic principles in communication: understand the needs of the person you are communicating with, learn to appreciate others, and be able to think from their perspective.
He said that understanding others is a kind of wisdom, but many people are often self-centered and do not understand what the person they are interacting with really needs. They are stubborn and self-righteous. Because of the limitation of their vision, they think that their social circle is the world. They regard their own experience as the standard and use their own standards to demand others. Such people tend to do things without success.
Professor Jin Zhengkun explained on the spot
Later, he emphasized that "people who are outstanding must have their own strengths." Only by learning to appreciate others can you improve yourself. Appreciation and tolerance belong to the same family. He believes that others should also be tolerated in communication. "One mountain cannot be the only one, but must complement each other." "Red flowers must be matched with green leaves." He concluded: "Everyone who has achieved great things at home and abroad in ancient and modern times is someone who can tolerate others."
Finally, he pointed out that the core of empathy is that communication should be centered on the other party. In communication, you should talk about topics that the other party is interested in and issues that the other party is good at. He said that people who are good at sociability often create opportunities for others. At the same time, he warned the audience not to handle interpersonal relationships with a scientific attitude.
During the narration, Professor Jin Zhengkun repeatedly emphasized the diversity of the world. He hoped that students from the University of w88 and Economics can understand the diversity of the world and master the basic principles of communication.
“Adhere to principles in big matters, learn to be flexible in small matters”
Professor Jin Zhengkun pointed out that "there is no right or wrong in common things, and there are right and wrong rules" and summarized several major principles for communicating with others. First of all, it is the basic principle of social etiquette that the person with higher status hangs up first when making a phone call; secondly, in business banquets, preparing things from the other party's hometown, understanding what the other party cannot eat, and asking closed questions (such as "Would you like tea or coffee?" instead of "What would you like to drink?") are the most critical issues.
At the same time, he also emphasized the importance of adapting to the environment. Due to cultural differences and national conditions, as long as communication exists, you need to adapt to others and the environment. He said, "You can't change the environment, but you have to face reality." "You can't change the world, but you can change yourself."
The audience listened with great interest
The audience actively asked questions
Professor Jin Zhengkun’s conversation was witty and the content of his lecture was very interesting. The audience applauded with applause and laughter. After the audience question-and-answer session, Xu Song summarized the lecture and the w88 casino International Forum. He said that the forum was rich in content and of great benefit to BISU students.
Secretary of the w88 casino Youth League CommitteeXu Song summarizes
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