w88 casino News Network (Reporter Ou Senlong Photography Zhang Duo)4month12日19:00, Chen Yu was a guest at the Youth Forum of the w88 casino, and the women of the w88 casino "Chat", interpret her life story. Talking and laughing, she shows the charm of women; calm and calm, she tells the audience that women can still be so elegant.

As soon as the lecture started, Chen Yu asked:“How long is the average life span of a Chinese person in one hundred years?”The answer is unexpected, it is35Years old. This unexpected result means that a hundred years ago, most Chinese women got married and had children in their teens.30I finished my life when I was only a few years old. Chen Yudao, but today, a hundred years later, China is already a brand new society, so there is no need to rush to get married, let alone get married for the sake of getting married, she herself38Married at the age of 14000_14006|41You only have children at the age of 14.

Chen Yu gave three suggestions on how to become a happy and successful woman.

First, do your own thingMs.Right. Chen Yu said, waiting for hisMr.RightIt is a very dangerous thing to change your own life. Women should learn to plan their own lives and control their own lives instead of relying on others. She hopes that women can fully enjoy the free time before marriage, because there are many new responsibilities after marriage, so enjoy the life before marriage, get to know many different people, and learn from different people. She also hopes that women can get along happily with men, but maintain an appropriate sense of mystery. She talks about every woman should have the attitude of a queen, that is“We teach others how to treet us”.

Second, learn to captureMr.Right. Chen Yu said that she used huntingCEOway to huntMr .Right's. She will expand her social circle, get along with good people, both men and women, and then learn how to be ordinary friends with boys. Chen Yu said that doing so would allow her to have more boyfriends“Candidate”, she will take the initiative to look for men to date, but it is just a date during the day, such as playing ball, buying a computer, or hiking. These interactions can allow her to evaluate whether a man can be hers“Candidate”. Because daytime is not a romantic time period, it is not easy for relationships to develop rapidly in a short period of time.

Third, learn to change the world. Chen Yu asked, should we change the world first or strive for our own success? Chen Yu said, from real estate developer to deputy mayor of Los Angeles to headhunting companyCEO, now a writer and advocate for women’s liberalism, has never submitted a resume or looked for a job.

When she was working in real estate, she spent most of her time outside expanding her social circle and doing volunteer work. The volunteer work she did was to go to the government to help with some financial matters. Because of her ability in volunteer work, she31When he was young, he was elected as the deputy mayor of Los Angeles by the new mayor. After retiring from office, he will work as a headhunterCEO, she could earn a lot of money, but she felt that her work was meaningless, so she started to do a very special volunteer work. She started a blog where she talked about how to achieve high positions in international companies. Because of the content of her blog, CITIC approached her and invited her to write a book about women, especially about“Leftover women”. It took a year, a lot of anxieties, and a lot of expectations before I finally finished "30Don’t Get Married Before 2019" was published. This new opportunity not only brought her new partners, but also brought her a different life. She began to write some columns, such as for the Wall Street Journal, Ruili, Health Friends, etc., and she was also approached by some advertisements, such as Procter & Gamble.

Throughout her resume, she has gone with the flow of every career change without any intention of striving for her own success. Every time she made a move to change the world, she naturally succeeded in the end.

Chen Yu suggested that we try to use the skills we are good at to serve more important things. For example, doing some interesting small projects and doing something that interests you can be just a side job at the beginning. Gradually, we will find that this is not only the road to success, but also makes us fall in love with our work, find close friends and compatible partners, and even achieve happiness.

The audience question and answer session that followed was extremely heated and lasted for nearly an hour. An audience member asked a question30Marriage and childbirth may not be good for women’s physical condition. Chen Yu immediately opened her book "30Don’t get married before 27719 years old》 read out some detailed statistics to refute, in fact20years old still35Children born after a marriage at the age of 28466| are very unlikely to have problems, so instead of considering the impact of when to have a child on their physical condition, it is better to consider whether you are ready to raise a child. Regarding the questions raised by other viewers, Chen Yu also gave many suggestions in turn. For example, women should have their own favorite sports. She herself likes to play tennis. Also, women should use Weibo more to express their opinions and gradually get used to making their own voices heard. Chen Yu also answered some questions in detail about his tenure as deputy mayor of Los Angeles.

Chen Yuyong American poet Mary·Oliver’s verse ended his speech,“Tell me, how do you plan to treat your only free and precious life?” She finally said that happiness is an attitude. If you think about the good in every bad thing, you will definitely gain happiness. After the lecture, Chen Yu signed autographs and took photos with fans.

This event is hosted by the Work-Study Center.