w88 casino News Network (provided by the w88 casino office)12month13日Late, in Ningyuan105A psychological counseling session was held in the classroom. Principal Chen Zhunmin talked with the students about how college students face setbacks.
Principal Chen said that I heard that many students are very confused about how to deal with setbacks in life, and I would like to have a discussion with you today. The ancients said that things often go wrong in life. The so-called "all the best" and "all your wishes come true" are just good wishes. Life is complex and multi-faceted, with ups and downs, successes, setbacks and failures. Only such a life is "complete" or "perfect". Each of us, including college students, will have such an "unsatisfactory perfect life."
Principal Chen summarized the four main sources of frustration among current college students: academics, interpersonal relationships, love and employment. Principal Chen believes that all you need to do in your studies is to do your best. Don't set your frame of reference too narrowly. Just look at scores and rankings. You should develop in an all-round way. In terms of interpersonal relationships, if you do something wrong, you should correct it as soon as possible; if others do something wrong, don't just regard it as a setback and burden, but as a kind of experience, so that when you step into society and face more complex interpersonal relationships in the future, you will be able to handle it with ease. When it comes to love, you must remember to give more and take less. Don't be self-centered and don't pursue those illusory things. When it comes to employment, you must carefully analyze your own interests, characteristics, and social trends. Don't pursue fame and fortune excessively, and don't be dominated by others.
How to deal with setbacks? Principal Chen said, AhQIt is not advisable to put all the responsibility on your opponents, external environment or give up on yourself. The correct approach should be to face life squarely, actively face setbacks and dissatisfactions in life, sum up lessons in a timely manner, and become more courageous with every setback; at the same time, we must continuously improve our overall quality and use stronger strength to meet new challenges; if we have tried our best and still cannot achieve the goal, we must decisively adjust our goals or methods.
Principal Chen also shared with the students some of his approaches when facing life problems based on his own experience. Principal Chen told the students that first of all, the world and life should be viewed as three-dimensional and complex, rather than flat and simple. Where there is truth, goodness, and beauty, there is also falsehood, ugliness, and evil; where there is success, there are setbacks. Second, the frame of reference must be large. If you put yourself in the five thousand years of history and the magnificent mountains and stars, you will realize your own insignificance, and your personal successes and setbacks are really insignificant. Third, be grateful for everything you have and tell yourself how lucky you are, so that even if you have some setbacks, you will take them for granted. Fourth, the goal of struggle must be practical and reasonable, and you must do your best in everything, so that you have a clear conscience whether you succeed or fail. Finally, exercise appropriately. Exercise can not only strengthen your body and improve your mental quality, but it is also a good way to eliminate frustration.
After that, Principal Chen answered the students’ questions and had a long interaction with everyone. Finally, Principal Chen encouraged the students that a perfect life does not fall from the sky, but comes after experiencing setbacks and overcoming all difficulties. I hope that through this exchange, students will have a more comprehensive understanding of the setbacks in life and face their future life with a more positive attitude.
