w88 casino News Network (Reporter Zhang Zhenyu)On the evening of March 20, Shi Yong, a senior reporter at Nanfeng Chuang magazine and a well-known social psychological analyst, visited Huiyuan and held a reading forum with students from the University of w88 and Economics. He shared his views in the book "The World is So Dangerous, You Must Have a Strong Heart" and had in-depth discussions with the students on site.
Shi Yong, a well-known social psychological analyst
"When others praise you because you have rights or money, you should not be arrogant; when others look down upon you because you have no rights or money, you should not feel inferior. We all understand these truths, but when faced with such praise or contempt, we will still be arrogant and inferior, and our hearts will still not be strong." Shi Yong started with such words, which aroused the interest of the audience.
In the forum, Shi Yong focused on analyzing six problems of psychologically cowardly people: not knowing that they have made stupid mistakes, knowing that they have made mistakes but not being able to correct them immediately, being unable to interpret the information they are trying to convey from other people’s language and actions, being unable to solve psychological problems on their own, often “kidnapping” themselves psychologically, and assuming that they have specific abilities or sentiments.
"Some people say they are loving, do they really have love? Does raising kittens and puppies prove that they are loving?" Shi Yong explained the sixth question this way, "He may imagine that he is loving, and use this to ask others."
The venue was packed
Shi Yong then shared some of his insights on character with the students. He divided human personality into six types: inferiority complex, aggression, performance, possessiveness, showing off and gentleness. He believed that each type of personality has its own appropriate development direction. "When we mess up, it's not our personality that's to blame. Our personality is just a way of protecting ourselves."
Questions from the audience
After the forum, the audience enthusiastically asked questions. When answering the question of how to adapt to society's survival laws, Shi Yong said: "I do not advocate fighting against the rules of the game in society, but to know it, understand it, and not be harmed by it."
