w88 casino News Network (Reporter Yu Hongxian）The sweat of May, the sun of June, the joy of July, and countless dreams. The faces that were still immature have experienced the slaughter of thousands of troops. They are the final winners on the college entrance examination battlefield. With expectations, dreams, and maybe a little bit of uneasiness, they came to this place where dreams set sail, which is also the stage closest to society.
The hardships of studying in a different place and the gap between dreams and reality may lead to confusion and confusion, but they will also give rise to endless enthusiasm and courage to resist difficulties. There is also a group of people who do not bow to difficulties and are no longer cowardly in confusion. They show their youth and pride on their own stage. How did they do it? What are they thinking? Please follow the reporters and listen to their voices.
Life does not need to show off and hide
First time seeing her,What impressed the reporter the most was the unchanging smile on her face. "Smiling makes me look more affable." She answered my question with a smile. She, Meng Yanan, International Business w88 casino2006grade student, any068762_8820
She always carries a lot of stuff with her because she doesn't go back to the dorm often. "Actually, I don't have time to go back. Sometimes I go out early in the morning and can't go back until the dormitory is closed." She thought for a moment and continued, "Occasionally I go back to change into Taekwondo clothes." "Aren't you tired?" "Of course I am tired. There is always more to do in a day. But also I have no choice. If I choose this path, I have to go on without hesitation. I have to endure all the hardships and hardships. Sometimes I feel very tired. I usually take a bath and relax myself, and then continue to work." At this point, she laughed again.
“When I first entered college, I was really confused because college was really different from what I imagined. University seems like a place where you can have fun freely, but it doesn't seem like it. I think everyone has different mentality and different opinions. They said that I was born to work hard and find things to do by myself. (Laughs) But I like this kind of life, it’s very fulfilling, isn’t it? "The confidence on her face made it impossible for me to deny this problem. "Sometimes there is a conflict between study and activities, and I usually use a stupid way to solve it, which is to reduce my sleep time. But it’s really effective and allows me to get everything done and study at my pace. When everything is completed step by step, I feel very accomplished and will not regret the sacrificed sleep time. I think gaining and giving complement each other. If you want to gain more, you must pay more. Giving up means gain on the other hand. Only when you give up can you gain something. Because I want to get a lot, so, on the other hand, I have to give up more, such as having fun and resting. ”
“Is it worth giving up so much?”
"There is no question of whether it is worth it or not, only whether you are willing or not. Whether it is worth it or not is the standard set by others. You have your own way to go, and whether you choose to do it or not depends on your own thoughts. Not everything has to be "worth it". Not everything can be judged by the standard of "whether it is worth it." Being rational is a good thing, but being too rational is not a good thing. It doesn't hurt to be a little emotional, so that your life will be more colorful and flesh-and-blood. "
The conversation with Meng Yanan has always been conducted in a relaxed atmosphere, and her smile always makes people unguarded. When talking about her dreams, she told me: "The biggest dream is to become a broad-minded and wise person. It's strange, isn't it? How can I put it, I pay more attention to spiritual things, and I hope to enrich myself with spirit, rather than showing off myself with material things. The spiritual aspect of a person is very important, and it is cultivated from birth. The material aspect can be recreated if it is lost, but once a person's personal qualities are developed, it is difficult to regain them. Change, but that is the key factor that can determine your life. During this time, I have been reading books on philosophy because I am fascinated by the feeling of enlightenment. I hope that I can become a person with content. I believe that if you are spiritually enriched, you will not be lacking in material aspects; but if you are spiritually poor, you can only be a poor person forever. People need to be as elegant as a lotus, but they don’t need to show off or hide it.
There is nothing impossible, only unimaginable
Chen Siyuan, w88 casino of Public Administration06grade student is a "popular person" in the eyes of everyone and a "superman" in the eyes of friends. He is famous because he is always active in various activities of the department and even the w88 casino: Home Alone basketball games, w88 casino badminton games, table tennis games, w88 casino English singer contests... He is called "Superman" because he is involved in many sports: basketball, badminton, table tennis, volleyball, tennis, swimming... Before I met him, I was very curious about him: What kind of person is he?
At the agreed place, I saw him waiting there from a distance, sitting casually on a chair. His appearance is not as rough as expected, but very gentle. Without too much restraint or shyness, he quickly started talking. "Actually, there is a big difference between college and high w88 casino. In terms of study, there is no one to supervise you every day; in terms of life, you suddenly move from home to the dormitory, and you suddenly have so many friends who sleep and sleep with you. It is natural to say that you are not used to it. Especially when you first came here, you were unfamiliar with the place and felt very lonely." He smiled bitterly, "But then I gradually integrated into this city and this w88 casino, and I made many good friends."
"Most of your classmates were top performers in high w88 casino. In a university where there are so many top students, do you feel a sense of gap?"
"There are many masters in the university, and everyone is very powerful. But I don't feel the gap very much. I think it is normal to be inferior to others now. Everyone has their own strengths. Temporary failure is nothing. After all, there will always be a shadow behind success. But four years later you will still be inferior to others. That is a terrible thing for people. Temporary failure can be regarded as a stepping stone to success, but long-term failure is always a failure. Now we can face the fact of "gap" calmly, but we must work hard to change the status quo while facing the facts. Things are changing and developing, and although we cannot deny the status quo, we can control the future. ”
When talking about the topic of "perfection", Chen Siyuan told reporters: "I am a person who tends to be perfectionistic. I require everything I do to be 'perfect', but this 'perfection' is relative to me personally. I have my own standard for 'perfection'. I only require what I do to meet my standards, and that way it is perfect for me. As for what others say -" he shrugged, "that's someone else's business."
"Although some people are doing what they like, they are not happy. Are you happy?"
"Happy!" He answered without any hesitation, "Because I have truly integrated into my life. I live for myself, not for others, so no matter whether I am doing something I like or not, as long as there is a little gain and progress, I will be happy for myself. No matter how heavy the burden or pressure is, I am who I am. Eternal motivation. Happiness is an essential thing in human life. But many people often misunderstand happiness. In fact, happiness is something that belongs to oneself and does not need to be given by the outside world. It is very simple. If you allow yourself to be happy, you will be a happy person.
After the interview, I found something in common between the two of them, which is open-minded optimism and confidence. As they say, everyone wants to choose a successful path. There is not just one such path, there may be thousands of them, but none of them will be marked by "decadence". Everyone will be confused and confused. If you learn to get out of confusion and solve confusion, you can stand higher and see further. I hope that everyone can find their own stage on this gorgeous platform of the university.
