Counselor is the position of love
Zhang Jingjuan (w88 casino of International Economics and w88)
In a blink of an eye, I have been working as a counselor for eight years and have experienced2001 Level,2005 6863_6882
A counselor is a position of love. Here, you have to learn how to deliver love and how to innovate love. This kind of love is more like the mellow friendship between friends. Although it is not strong, it is very long-lasting.
Love means equality. Although counselors bear the important responsibilities of ideological and political education and daily management, and play the role of management and guidance, it does not mean that this field is“Yiyantang”, Equality between teachers and students is an important foundation for student management work. Mutual respect and mutual trust on this basis will give student management work a steady stream of vitality and motivation.
Love means responsibility. While students fully express their free will, they must assume corresponding responsibilities, or at least begin to learn to take responsibility, thereby cultivating students' sense of responsibility and improving students' self-management abilities.
Love means tolerance. In areas where the existing laws and regulations cannot clearly restrict, the way and attitude towards some problems and even mistakes among young people will affect the life path of young people. Here, more tolerance means more hope. But tolerance is not connivance. Tolerance is an attitude. It can guide students in a positive way and stimulate students' conscious awareness. Although there are warnings and punishments, the purpose is education and enlightenment.
Love means details. Counselors and teachers not only need to be the icing on the cake and encourage students to develop in an all-round way, but they also need to provide timely help to help students get out of the trough in life. A student's vague inquiry or a hint of loneliness should attract your attention. The student's delicate thoughts should be grasped from the subtleties. A little more inquiry and a little more effort will give you more hope, and this hope can be passed on and illuminate more people's lives.
Counseling is a hard job. I think all comrades who have worked as students will feel the same way. What is very valuable is that almost every counselor has the excellent quality of enjoying hardships, being able to resolve the pressure and problems at work optimistically and actively, doing a good job for the students, and making suggestions for the students' all-round growth and long-term development. Counselors work with young people with distinctive personalities and vitality. Every word and deed of counselors will subtly affect students' knowledge and understanding of things, so counselors must be strict with themselves. Maybe counselors deal with a lot of trivial matters, maybe counselors have a lot of unquantifiable heart-to-heart talk and explanation work, maybe counselors still have a lot of disappointments that are not recognized, but in front of students and in front of work, counselors can always play a role model. A high sense of responsibility and good professional ethics are the driving force for counselors' work.
A counselor is a rewarding position.“Working and happy”is a work philosophy,“Harvesting in happiness”It is a state of mind. In my interactions with my classmates, I gain friendship and warmth. I understand the fashion of contemporary college students more quickly, which broadens my horizons and makes me happy. When dealing with various student problems, I organize and coordinate resources and forces from all aspects, and even participate in resolving family disputes and resolving conflicts in all aspects, thereby improving my personal organizational skills. The versatility, enthusiasm and persistence of young students also deeply infected me, and invisibly urged me to constantly absorb nutrients and enrich myself.
Whether colleagues have experienced it or are currently experiencing it, I believe they will all have a sincere love for the career of counselors and will remember the growth and gains brought by their experience as counselors.
Tour of Tianjin Dagang
Record and05Job-seeking Counseling for Grade 1 Students
Xu Wenbing (English w88 casino)
After receiving the information that China Petroleum Dagang Oilfield Engineering Construction Co., Ltd. was recruiting fresh graduates in our college, I quickly organized students who had not yet completed their work in the college and guided them to actively apply. Finally, four students got the opportunity to interview with the company. As a counselor, I have led many graduating classes, but this year is different from previous years. The situation this year is more severe and employment opportunities are precious. I feel that this is not only a huge pressure for me, but also a difficult hurdle for the graduates. Therefore, I attach great importance to the employment opportunities provided by the company to students, and decided to personally lead the students to the Tianjin company location to participate in interviews.
Morning of April 24, 20097 At half past one, four students including Anjie, Feng Zhenyu, Chen Cheng, and Ding Wenjin and I drove to Dagang, Tianjin. Since the company is located far away from the city, it is difficult to find, so we have to rely on sourcing along the wayGPSThe positioning system is used for navigation, and the road signs are carefully checked along the way, for fear that if you take a wrong turn, you will miss this precious interview. Even though I was driving, I could still detect that the four students were nervous about the upcoming interview, so I communicated with them and introduced some of the employment situations of past graduates of our college and what should be paid attention to during the interview. On the one hand, it was to relieve the students' stress, and on the other hand, it was to allow the students to better demonstrate their abilities in the later interviews. Slowly, the students' nervousness gradually relaxed, and everyone started joking. There was chatting and laughing along the way, and the students also talked about their views and expectations on work and their future career plans. From the conversation, it can be felt that the four students are eager to enter a large state-owned enterprise such as PetroChina, and they cherish and attach great importance to this interview opportunity.
At first, everything went smoothly. Originally scheduled for morning10 Arrived at the company around 30:30 for the interview. However, after entering Tianjin, there was a traffic jam on the road, which delayed the trip. I am quite anxious and worried, fearing to delay the student's interview, and at the same time, the student's mood will be affected by this. So I had timely and active communication with the person in charge of the company's interview. After coordination, the company decided to postpone the interview time and proposed to provide lunch for a group of us, and the interview would be held after the meal. After learning about this situation, the stone in my heart finally fell.
It was already noon when we arrived at the company. The company staff warmly received us and then arranged for us to have lunch with the company leaders. During this period, the company leaders and I communicated about the situation of the w88 casino and the company. The company praised the educational level of the w88 casino and recognized the professional level of the students in w88 casino. It said that the company currently lacks comprehensive English talents with business and economic and w88 knowledge background. Through communication, I am more confident that this student can successfully apply.
At about 1:30 in the afternoon, the interview officially began, and was personally hosted by a deputy general manager and a minister of the company. First, they introduced the company and answered students' questions about the company and work; next, they asked students oral questions. After getting to know the students initially, the basic professional skills of the four students were assessed through written tests. Based on comprehensive consideration of resumes, interviews, and written tests, the company finally selected two students. I am very satisfied with being able to achieve such results, and the anxiety in my heart has finally dropped a bit.
Having this experience, I have accumulated a lot of experience in contacting employers, which will be of great help to the future employment of graduates. It also makes me full of confidence in the employment prospects of this year’s graduates.
Phoenix flowers bloom again
Lei Liang (w88 casino of Public Administration)
Phoenix flowers bloom again in another year, and it’s time for another class of students to leave w88 casino. I am busy going through the departure procedures for them, and I also try to chat with the graduates for a while longer in the last time. In the last time I spent with them, looking at the familiar faces, I couldn't help but think of the days I spent with them. Looking at it, I laughed sincerely. Because the faces of these students who are about to leave w88 casino and enter the society have grown from the curiosity and immaturity when they first entered the w88 casino to the confidence and maturity now; from the ignorance at the beginning, after four years of careful training at the University of International w88, they have grown into the pillars of talents who are ready to build the motherland.
Since the moment I entered the w88 casino, I have formed an indissoluble bond with the graduates. Because every year, the student union of the college league branch that I am responsible for organizes a large-scale event for the whole w88 casino to send off graduates——“Graduation Lige”Series of activities. Therefore, in addition to working in the w88 casino for three years and serving as a counselor for the graduating class for two years, I personally planned, organized and participated in graduation singing activities. I also had more opportunities to get in touch with the graduates and spend the last time in Huiyuan with them.
5 month29 Day, farewell to our hospital2009 16520_16648PPTThe display recalls the four wonderful years of college, which makes people feel endless nostalgia.6 month19 Day,“Graduation Lige”The large-scale party is about to grandly open on the stage of Hongyuan Square. This is a large-scale graduates' farewell party hosted by the Youth League Committee of the w88 casino and hosted by the Student Union of the Youth League Branch of the w88 casino of Public Administration. As the head of the Youth League branch of the w88 casino of Public Administration, I and the student cadres of the Student Union of the w88 casino of Public Administration came to the Hongyuan Square early to make serious preparations for the upcoming party. Together with my classmates from the Student Union, I moved equipment, tables, chairs and equipment to decorate the venue, and carefully checked each facility to ensure the safety and smooth progress of the party. I felt as if I was doing my best to prepare the best gifts for the graduates. As night falls, the party officially begins. I sat under the stage, enjoying this wonderful evening show that was filled with the w88 casino’s deep feelings for the graduates who were about to leave w88 casino. I was deeply moved while immersed in it.
I personally experience the graduation singing activities every year. Although it is inevitable to feel a lot of reluctance at the end of each activity, I feel the passion and growth of the graduates during the organization and participation of these activities, and I see from them their good expectations for the future. Although the future is unknown and they do not know how many ups and downs there will be ahead, they are still optimistic, confident, energetic and full of youthful vitality. I think this is the good spirit and quality of graduates. Although they are about to say goodbye, it is inevitable to feel sad and nostalgic, but this spirit touched me and I am proud of them. I hope that the graduates will always remember the kindness of their alma mater, make great achievements in the days to come, and make more and more exciting progress in life.
