These ubiquitous reversals in life are like delicious food with a fatal aroma, supporting us to fight against the cold winter of fate.

2010In the winter of last year, I received a text message from Bingru on my mobile phone: Dear, I passed the Mars interview and will join the finance department next month. In an instant, time went back to five years ago. It was also a winter night. She ran back to the dormitory happily holding a big box. It turned out that she accidentally broke into the Mars seminar and won a box of candies in a lottery. The dormitory was surrounded by a sweet atmosphere for a whole month, and there were sweets to eat every day. These ubiquitous reversals in life are like delicious food with a fatal aroma, supporting us to fight against the cold winter of fate.

2005In the midsummer of 2015, we met in the temporary building of Foreign Economic and w88. In front of the dormitory that looked like a building block house, four silly faces were frozen in a photo. We were foreign economic and w8805-level children.

2008In the winter of 2013, there was only haze. The sudden economic crisis has made us who were already ignorant even more unable to find our way. There is a particularly popular western pastry shop in Dongdan. The egg tart puffs are affordable and delicious. Every time I go there for an interview, everyone buys a bunch of them. But at that time, I couldn't feel the sweetness in my mouth, and I felt a sudden sense of powerlessness. I couldn't hold on and closed the dormitory door and broke down crying. I was sleepless night after night, staring at the computer screen in a daze for several hours, living like a zombie. What should we complain about, unlucky people encountering unlucky times? It was as if we had experienced an earthquake. After a few hazy months, we graduated. In the vast ocean, people will instinctively grasp the driftwood, even if it is a piece of rotten wood that will break into pieces. Anyway, we all have a job.

On the day I saw off Can, I was rushing to work and had no time to feel sad. She stared at her big innocent eyes and refused to shed tears. On the bus after get off work, I suddenly touched her pocket in the duskEKa, facing those big hopeful eyes and the corners of her mouth that curved upward, tears burst out. She told me that as long as a person is alive, good things will happen.

At dawn when I suddenly woke up, I decided to resign and go back to w88 casino. After making this decision, I felt relaxed and relieved that I had nothing.

In the morning when everyone was asleep, Zhang Bingru loudly announced that she rejected Dabao’s offeroffer。

Jing squeezes the subway for an hour and a half every day from north to west. You know, among the foreign economic and w88 people who went there at the same time as her, she was the only one who still persisted.

Like a handful of feathers thrown into the sky, each flying in different directions. It’s hard to say who is braver, going to a strange city alone, leaving everything behind and going back to w88 casino, resigning with no way out, or persevering without seeing the future. You don’t know when being open-minded means giving up, persisting is foolish, and when making decisions. At that moment, there was only Huhu's courage in my heart.

2009The winter of 2019 is a good season. Bingru has adapted to life in a small private enterprise. Although it is tiring, she likes it. Jing has become a celebrity in front of her boss and a beauty in the sales department. Not to mention Can, who was named the best newcomer in the industry in his first year. This winter, there was a lot of snow. I every day7Go to the study room in Ningyuan on time to review for the postgraduate entrance examination.

A dialogue often heard in movies, the heroine says:“I really don’t know why I fell in love with you at that time.”The hero answered:“We are doing well now.”Yes, the person we love so much rejected us, but aren’t we fine now? What I pursued at that time was happiness, but what I get now is happiness.

Really, we are all fine, fine, fine, just get over it. Winter is coming, can spring be far behind? She is willful, she is proud, she is reckless, she is vain, she is not a perfect person, but the world is so big, there is always a small space where she can fit in perfectly, splicing together a perfect picture.

Life is difficult, there is no ideal, only life. When dealing with this willful child in life, the first and most important thing is to be patient, to have the patience to wait for her, to care for her, and even to pamper her without reservation. The second most important thing is courage, having the courage to accept her, face him, and believe in her without hesitation. The third most important thing is motivation, having the energy to deal with her, defeat her, and control her with ease.

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I heard a passage from the Bible in Teacher Liu Yuan’s class and thought about it over and over again for a long time. All the complexity was condensed in this short prayer:

May God give me the peace of mind to accept the things I cannot change.

May God give me the courage to change the things I can.

May God give me the wisdom to distinguish between the two.

There is no eternal cold winter in life. In the coldest time, as long as you grit your teeth, the snow will eventually melt. Smile at life, and life will eventually smile back at you.